“Wow, you don’t look like your four and a half months pregnant. You just look like you ate a big meal”, “You’re only four and a half months? You look like you’re farther along than that.” or “No, you don’t look like you’re to big or too small, you look perfect. It’s just because you’re so small.” Hearing all of these comments on almost a daily basis can be somewhat worrisome for a first time mother. Am I gaining too much or not enough. According to my doctor I’m not underweight or overweight and have nothing to worry about. Hmmmm so why all the different opinions? I’ll have to take them for what they are “opinions” and not let myself get caught up in them.